How does a child learn

During the first years of life, the child has to learn many things such as walk, talk, eat and drink, ask to make physiological needs, dressing, washing, brushing your teeth, save clothes and toys and Together, all of the activities of daily life.
The child who feels happy to do something, want to make do it, where you see that the feeling of satisfaction is important factor in learning. The child is delighted to be the object of attention of others. A smile, a nod of the head, an expression of approval, a simple "Very well," usually enough to satisfy it. Not giving however, due attention when it deems worthy, may seek to obtain it to other costs.
You may even prefer to be punished not receive attention from others. These aspects are a valuable element to the mother who wishes to teach good habits children.

Learning experience
What the child sees, hears, or feels, every day, serves him to experience progressively expand their world, and so it is developing. When can walk, your experience increases the distance faster. Want to see everything and want to play at all. And it's that peculiar way that is learning.
The extent possible, the child must learn by doing, and it is not surprising can learn as well. Once, a boy two years received a beautifully illustrated children's book. His parents taught him that should be
treated with care and turn the pages carefully. To their astonishment, past two months, the book does not contain any leaf torn, although the boy had used it almost every day.
The child should spend most of the time where it can fidget, to do not need constantly hear expressions like these: "Do not touch", "Hands off dai", "Get out, get out, get out".
The house should be planed so as not to be within the reach of children many things that do not allow it to play because if they break easily or very expensive.
How would never think to take away the legs of children who could not floor, we should not take away his intellect with much repeated "Do not do this. We must ask ourselves: "Do I say this because the child is doing something that I should suppress or merely because I have the habit of saying it? "

Learning with questions
The child should be taught not to interrupt their elders, but their questions should not go unanswered. You can tell him: "When you finish talk, I will answer your questions. "
The child who continually question should not remain without attention but can be encouraged to answer their own questions. "Go see what daddy doing, see if you can understand what I prepare for lunch, "" see if You can find your way in under your bed, "are expressions that the mother can use as a means to encourage children to solve their own problems and obtain answers to their questions, which should never be suppressed with a "shut up".

Learning by imitation
Almost everything the child does is because she has seen someone else do it. You eat with relish or refuse food if you see other people do the same. Say a bad word, she learn to say bad words, if she listen you lie, she will learn to lie. If daughter sees her mother doing housework, just want to cook, wash and dry the dishes, make beds, sweep the house, so if the father is dealing with garden, the child will just grab some tool and begin working on the land.
Children are the mirror of their parents. Habits, gestures, manner of speaking, are things that the child acquires watching and imitating their parents. "Thank you", "Please", " I am sorry" are terms used by the child that there expressions of the mouths of parents. If you listen to the conversation of her child and her observed modes, you will find it a reflection of his own person - the same words, the same phrases employed, they are courtesy of rudeness or anger, the same intonation of voice, the same gestures, etc..
Give the child time to learn
Time and patience are two things which are indispensable to parents who want teach your child to do things for herself. It may be that mother has correct Janie hundreds of times by putting on the shoe of the foot changed left to right. It may be that the father has to sit to tie many tens of times the shoes of Tommy, before he learns to tie them alone. One should not rush the young child to learn, not force it
continue when tired. "Wait 2 minutes and i will tie these shoes with you," are words that will bring the novice delivered to your efforts. One should not criticize child, calling it a "slug" or "sluggish", nor should blame her for committing errors.

Parents: take time and patience to slay your children learn the first lessons of practical life.